I'velearnt, youshouldNEVERdresstoimpress, norshouldyoubesomeoneyou'renot, becauseotherwisethey'renotfallinginlovewithyou...thatnopersononthisearthisworthlosingyourdignity, yourlifeandmostimportantlyyourheartover..., unlessyouintendtoloseyoursanity.
I', youshouldjustletlovebe...ifit'smeanttobeit'smeanttobe...Mymumalwaystoldmethat, andIalwaysagreed, butIguessreally, Inevermeantit...nowIdo...
I'velearntthatevenifsomeonedoesn'tloveyou, youshouldstilllovewitheverythingyouhave...lovehasnoboundariesandifyoudothat, thenitwillcomebackmultiplied.
I'velearntthatyoushouldn'treadintothingsoroveranalyzeorthinktoomuch, becauseitjustcreatesproblemsandblowslittlethingsintohugethings, whichreallyarenothingcomparedtothethingsyou'llbegoingthroughlaterinlife.
I'velearntthatifIcan'tmakemehappy, thenwhocan? You''tunderstandthat...butIdo...andthat'sthemainthing...
WhenIstartedoutwritingthis, Ireallydidn'tthinkI'dhavethatmuchtosay...butitmademerealizethatsometimesyoulearntlessonswhenyoudidn', andthere'dawholenewwayoflife...Butpersonally, Ithinkitwasjustthebeginning...andthatyoudon'tneedanewmillenniumtostartoutnew...butthatyoucanstartoutanyminuteyouchoose...anyhour, anyday, anyyear...
啊……
我懂了,该飞时就要飞……你不能拖延,不能装作若无其事,也不能装作永无改变。
我懂了,人变了,并不意味着朝着坏方向发展;有人不明白这些,但你不得不学着去接受……
我懂了,你应尽力去尝试尽可能多的不同事物,从业余爱好到发型,再到朋友圈子。也许刚开始的时候,你感觉自己迷失了,你不知道自己是谁,又属于哪里。但是接着,你会明白发生了什么:如果你不继续努力,永远也不能真正地找到你想要的。这意味着你永远不能战胜自己……尝试会给你继续前行的决心和勇气。
我懂了,你不能用一个通宵的时间找到自己,即使现在,我们仍在很多地方不了解自己,但是,无论怎样,到达这里已经很快乐了。
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