偶尔,素不相识的人也向我征求建议。学生家长常会问我,怎样做才会使孩子前途光明。有时也会问,怎样才能让孩子听他们的话或者相信他们。我想,他们之所以问我,是因为他们确信我知道答案,或者他们看到我的头发白了,胡子也白了,就相信我这个岁数足以解决这些问题。
韦氏关于“建议”一词的定义中最主要的问题是——没考虑建议者。给出建议的人理解这个问题吗?能帮忙解决吗?我给过女儿、父母、学生和陌生人正确的答案吗?
我觉得我该打电话给女儿了,向她征求些建议。
Websterdefinesadviceasbeing, "arecommendationwithregardtoacourseofaction."
Theexpression, "Ineedsomeadvice" , "Dad"., , .
, , , whenmydaughterhitthewonderfulteenagedyears, shedidn', , ', myfatherdidthesame.
Soon, toosoon, , andseekout, , .
, "Whatplanetwereyoubornon?" EitherwayIdomybest.
, ifIcouldonlybelievethissamerealizationandfinallyrelaxinmynewrole.
Myfolk', ifIadmitthattheyaregettingold, , prayingthatIamadvisingthemtodotherightthingsbuthowcouldIpossiblyknow? Unlikegivingadvicetomydaughter, , likeIhavealwaystrustedthem.
, Iamahighschoolteacherwhoworkswithyoungadultswhoareabouttoembarkoncareersthatincludecollege, themilitary, , 'trealizethatgraduatingfromhighschoolisoneofthelast "rightsofpassage" oursocietyhas.Thisistruebecausetheseyoungchildrenareleavingatimethathadtakenupover75% oftheiryounglives.
So, Iadvicethemastowhatindustrieswillbeimportantwhentheygetoutofcollege; whatmilitaryservicetheyshouldlookinto, .
SometimespeopleIdon'''tlistenordoesn'.
ThebasicproblemwithWebster'sdefinitionofadviceisthatitdoesn'? Inthepast, didIgivemydaughter, parents, students, andstrangersthecorrectadvice?
IthinkI'llgivemydaughteracallandaskherforsomeadvice!
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